【隨心所欲不叫改命】
"I write my own destiny."
Yes, you're absolutely right. But that's provided you really know HOW to write it.
Otherwise, you're just scribbling your own destiny like a petulant 3-year-old with a fat crayon.
When you make a bold claim like that, it means:
You can write yourself to greater success, than what is destined in your Bazi.
You can also write yourself out of the failures destined in your Bazi, either before they happen or if happening, you are able to cut short the suffering and minimise the damage swiftly.
If you can't do any of these basics, you are NOT writing a better destiny.
Doing what you feel like doing is freedom to the laymen.
Yet once I lay out your Bazi naked, you're merely following what is already dictated in your birth chart. What freedom is there to speak of, when you can't even jump out of the confines of your Bazi?
Don't mistake writing yourself into your destiny, as writing your own destiny.
That would be the most ignorant act you can ever do to yourself and your family.